I’ve always loved and respected women, and throughout my life, I’ve been told I’m attractive and attentive as a partner. Over the last several years, I’ve been told by very attractive women that I’m a DILF and a hottie, among other things. I’m embarrassed by the age difference and aware that I’m married, but the attraction feels mutual and real. Your wife just doesn’t seem interested anymore, but what does she say about the state of your sex life? When someone talks about things you’re not interested in on a date, that’s a good indication they aren’t a match.