If you tell this person you recognize him from the app, however benign your intentions, he may feel exposed, vulnerable and dependent on your discretion. You don’t need a bisexual interlocutor to discuss forbidden desires, then, and discussing erotic temptation is not necessarily a good way of managing it. Or perhaps you’re simply seeking relief from whatever loneliness or strain you may be experiencing. But you don’t know enough to be sure that this person is abusing the system. — JamesThe post Can I Tell a Member of My Church That I Recognize Him from a Dating App?