The Only Murders in the Building star, 33, and acclaimed songwriter Benny, 37, have given a glimpse into their big day, which was a glitzy black tie affair in a 70-acre private estate just north of Santa Barbara. The Kill Em With Kindness singer wore her dark hair down in a Hollywood glam bob complete with Tiffany & Co drop earrings, while record producer Benny sported a sharp black tuxedo with a blue shirt and matching pocket square. A short video sees them sharing a sunlit moment kissing and chatting, with Selena affectionately rubbing Benny’s chest and giggling. Selena looked radient in a glam high-necked and backless dress (Picture: selenagomez/Instagram)They were joined by famous friends including Taylor Swift and Ed Sheeran (Picture: selenagomez/Instagram)Who is Benny Blanco? Born in Virginia on March 8, 1988, Benny Blanco – real name Benjamin Joseph Levin – is a successful record producer and songwriter.